This sex guide is a response to our previous one. Have you already guessed? Yes, today we’ll be discussing how to turn a woman into a proper sex slave. Last week’s guide already had all the definitions in it, but for making things simpler, we’ll go through it again. Before you begin any kind of a master-slave relationship, you have to decide how far are you willing to go. There are various forms of domination, some start and end in the bedroom, some transfer to all areas of life.
Master and Mistress
Let’s go over all the BDSM terms. Master, or the female version Mistress, is referring to the person in charge. Every form of dominance has two sides: one who dominates, and the other who submits. The first one is going to be yours, so it’s not necessary for you to be called a Master, you can make up your own title, anything you like, just as long as it makes you aroused. Most people choose something like Daddy, Sir, or Boss. What matters most is for you to remember, that the dominant stands higher than his or her submissive, which means that they have to do whatever you want.
Sex slave
Since sex slaves are not necessarily related to sex, the term can be tricky. Masters or Mistresses may decide to dominate different aspects of a slave’s life, such as telling them what to wear, controlling their daily schedule, or making them do their household chores. As long as your submissives listen to you, it doesn’t matter how you dominate. Unlike popular belief, the dominants’ pleasure has no more value than the subs’, who actually enjoy the mutual fun just as much as their Masters.
How to convince her?
In case you’re already in a relationship and want to introduce the new concept to your partner, it’s going to take some time. First, concentrate on what your partner desires and what do you hope to gain from this new relation. Is your partner open and eager to change the power-dynamics in your relationship? Don’t ask her this right away, start by slowly warming her up by showing her some videos or stories. Do some research, introduce her to the results, and assure her that there is nothing to be afraid of when trying a master-slave relationship. Most people immediately connect BDSM with pain, while that’s not the case. In reality, BDSM is a spectrum that covers anything from playful role-playing to tying up your partner, it can be as painful or not painful as you want; as long as it’s consensual everything’s fair.
How to keep her satisfied?
After she agrees to becoming your personal sex slave, you have to concentrate on how to keep it that way. For a master or mistress to keep their slaves satisfied and happy, there are a few important things they should do.
- Reward them – remember to show your slave that they are doing a good job by rewarding them. Let them know that they’re appreciated.
- Punish them – as essential as it is to reward good behaviour, it’s also important to punish the bad one, whenever it’s needed.
- Your slave can’t fear you – we’ve just talked about punishing, but remember that your sex slave should not fear you. They should be happy to serve you.
- Respect your slave – just because they are a slave doesn’t mean that they aren’t human, either. Remember to treat them with respect.
- Keep your expectations realistic – now, we know that you want him to listen to everything you are saying, whenever you’re saying it, but he also needs to rest sometimes.
- Rules – create a list of rules for your slave, so they can have something to follow. Also, consider doing a daily task schedule for them.
Ways to dominate
- Edging or orgasm denial – this will make your parter go crazy, even if she doesn’t want to be submissive. Guide’s coming soon!
- Degrading – name-calling, pointing out all flaws, it can be anything you feel like.
- Humiliation – similar to degradation, it can be as simple as saying mean things to your sub, or as serious as watersports or breath play.
- Bondage – this should go unsaid, as it’s a big part of BDSM
Remember that women are actually capable of coming more than once, which you can use to your advantage. Maybe you can ruin a few orgasm in a row for her? Or make her pass out from pleasure? Her fate is in your hands.
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