Most likely, you came across this sex guide, because you were looking for something that will rekindle the spark of romance in your relationship. Well, it just so happens that there’s nothing that screams “desire” more than a little sprinkle of BDSM play in the bedroom. This time, we’ll concentrate on bondage and its various forms. Don’t worry, this guide is specifically meant for beginners, there’s no way you could hurt your partner trying out our tips. Bondage practice is all about control and restraint, two things that are very hard to achieve in the heat of a moment, but also two crucial ingredients of improved sex life.
Different Forms of Bondage
As you probably already know, bondage is what stands behind the first letter in the acronym BDSM. What you may not know is what exactly it is. It’s more of an umbrella term, but it all comes down to consensually restraining your partner. The most popular practises that are:
- Body restraints – starting with simple handcuffs, ending with full body bind
- Body wrap – using plastic wrap instead of usual rope, not recommended for beginners
- Mental/verbal bondage – restraining someone using commands and training
- Chastity devices – controlling only the private areas of either gender
- Suspension – hanging someone up in the air
- Mouth bondage – usually used in oral play
- Sensory deprivation – starting with blindfolds, and ending with extreme practices
Everyday Objects for Beginner Bondage Play
If you’re new to bondage play, you probably don’t want to spend a little fortune on toys to do it professionally. Don’t fret, it’s absolutely unnecessary to do that, unless you wish to become a dominatrix. Many tools that are perfect for restraints are already at your home. Here’s the list of the most popular ones:
- Scarves and ties – the shape is already perfect, just choose one you’re not planning to wear afterwards
- Cables and cords – a painful option, but that just adds to it, doesn’t it?
- Belts – leather ones would be the best, but be delicate as they can seriously damage the skin
- Stockings/thigh highs – nylon ones can be painful, also most likely unusable after playtime, keep that in mind
- Tape – almost any tape would do, although the best would be duct or painter’s tape
- Cut up cotton/bamboo t-shirts – these fabrics are the softest, yet most durable, it would make a fine rope, same as flax, but this one is more rough on skin
How to get started?
First things first, is your partner on board with being tied up or doing it to you? Bondage isn’t something you should try with a stranger, and the trust not only has to be there, but be mutual. As with all BDSM practices, you also have to set a safe word and clear boundaries. All right, so now that you both want to get down to business, how to do that? Being a newbie in anything doesn’t feel good, but you have to accept that label in order to move forward. Try joining some BDSM websites or go see a dominatrix show in your area, as that’s also sometimes happening. Check out some more sex guides about specific techniques that interest you.
As it is a case with most BDSM practises, if you’re not grossed out or outraged by it, you’ll probably like it. Of course, this sex guide kept the subject light and easy to comprehend for beginners, but it had to get your blood boiling. Check out some porn on the subject, read up on bondage methods, and you’re good to go, we both know you want this. Don’t be afraid of exploring your sexuality, even if some of the things you desire might be a little questionable. All you have to remember is making sure your partner feels comfortable with it, and you’re both having fun.
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