How to Give a Perfect Blowjob

Has any of your partners ever complimented you on your blowjob skills? Do you feel confident about them? If the answer to any of the above questions is “no”, you’ve come to the right place. The PGL team came together to make a complete list of tips to help you advance in your abilities. Not everything might be right for you or your man, but sex is a spectrum that’s meant to be discovered together. The most important thing, that will lead you both to unforgettable orgasms, is communication and being open with each other. That being said, use these hints to help you advance in your skills and make your man see stars the next, or first, time you go down on him.

Throw everything you saw in porn down the drain

Yes, technically porn, well at least amateur porn, depicts real sex and positions, but it’s done in a way it looks good, not feels. For example, most videos about oral sex concentrate on women staying still with their mouth open and men doing all the work. Some may enjoy it, but it’s definitely not what your man had in mind asking for a blowjob. Think about all the time you had sex and now imagine trying to film it, not so easy, is it? The right camera angles can be achieved, but the positions would get way less comfortable, and when it comes to blowjobs it’s even more complicated. Don’t worry about arching your back the right way when you kneel, or lying down in the most sexy way, no one’s looking! You’re going to feel much better in a more relaxed position, thus your partner will too.

Deepthroat – how and why?

The idea of putting the whole thing in your mouth might seem appealing to both of you, but is it worth it? It’s undoubtedly worth trying, at least to see how it feels, but you might find it’s not something for you, and that’s absolutely ok. The most sensitive part of penis is the head, and that’s where you want to focus your attention. If you want to try deepthroating, the easiest position to do so would be to kneel in front of your partner, when he’s sitting or standing up. You need to look for an angle in which your throat stays the most open and start by licking the entire length. If you feel like your mouth is too dry, try chewing some gum beforehand or drink a lot of juice. Remind your partner you’re not skilled at it before trying, so that he won’t try to hold your head. Don’t try too hard, pull away if you have a gag reflex. It might seem impossible at first, but it’s doable, although most men don’t enjoy it that much.

What should I do then?

First thing you should do before even attempting oral sex is asking your partner what he likes. Some men like playing with their balls or stimulating their prostate, while your mouth takes care of their penis, while others might be indifferent towards it. It’s always best to check in with your partner, before trying something new on him. Also, remember about using your tongue, for example twirl it around the tip while it’s in your mouth. You can also use your hands to caress your man’s thighs, stomach or just stimulate the base at the same time. While the tip is the most sensitive part of a penis, it’s to make this time extra special, moan a little to let him know how much you enjoy yourself. Your excitement would work as an aphrodisiac to your partner, so even if you don’t feel like oral sex is your favourite, don’t show it.

Best positions for beginners

Everyone has to begin somewhere, the question is where. There’s nothing wrong with being a newcomer, but being inexperienced doesn’t have to mean being awkward and uncomfortable. No matter if it’s your first time, or one of the firsts, state this to your partner immediately. Many men would try to hold your head, and while it can be really hot and wanted by both parties, you still don’t know if you have a gag reflex and how to properly breathe. The easiest positions to give a blowjob would be kneeling in front of your partner or lying perpendicularly to him. The first one is pretty simple, although kneeling for a good half an hour might not be something very comfortable. The second one makes both of you comfortable, your partner can touch your crotch at the same time, and you still have one free hand to touch his body. You can also try other variants, like lying in between his legs, but that depends on how well-endowed he is and how deep you are planning to take him. 

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