Grip, Stroke, Satisfy – A Sex Guide to Mind-Blowing Handjobs

Getting the hand of it

A crucial skill everybody should have in their sex repertoire is giving a great handjob. While this doesn’t seem like a hard job for those who actually have a penis, for others it might be. Pleasing your partner with just your hand proves to be a real struggle for a lot of people, hence this sex guide. One of the common misconceptions is that a regular automatic movement is enough, when it’s just the tip of the iceberg. Don’t worry, you don’t have to be good at everything, although it wouldn’t hurt to learn, would it? After all, you want to please your partner, and not embarrass yourself. 

Important details

Remember that despite everything that you might read or heard, men are also people, and they also need stimulation. You cannot expect your partner to be heard whenever you feel like it, you need to build up the tension. So, instead of just reaching into their pants and grabbing their limp member, try to make them hot first. Also consider using some Lube or spit, as the hard fraction might be unpleasant. A lot of people will feel uncomfortable naked or having their penis touched while it’s not erect. Keep that in mind and try to be understanding. 

Masturbation but not solo

A good introduction into hands jobs is simply watching your partner masturbate. At first, it might be uncomfortable for both of you, it would be best to play a porn video in the background or for you to join in and mutually masturbate at the same bit. Watching your partner please themselves is extremely sexy, but you have to remember what you are here for, and that is to learn. Take notes on how exactly they are grabbing their dick, what moves they are doing, and, most importantly, what’s their tempo, as this is the best sex guide you will get. Of course, our tips, and tricks, are also useful, but that’s for getting generally good at handjobs, and not specifically taking care of your partner. Everybody is different and everybody might like different things, keep that in mind.

Techniques to get him off

After you managed to get their cock hard, it’s time to do something about it. This sex guide will concentrate on three, the most popular, handjob techniques. 

The claw technique

Position your hand like a claw machine that you can see in bowling alleys and games arcades. This time, instead of a stuffed bear or another toy, the prize would be their dick. Lower your hand so that your fingertips touch the head of their cock, and then slowly move it down along the shaft. Continue the movement, changing your pressure from low to high. You can either finish with it or change into something else. 

The twist

Grab their member at the bottom of its shaft and start moving your hand up and down. As you move it up, twist it a little left or right, depending which side you’re positioned on, then moving down twist it back. You can also change the pressure, grabbing it tighter at the bottom and letting while closing at the tip. Be careful around the head of the penis as it’s very delicate, and it is the easiest to damage, especially if you are moving your hand fast and sport long nails.

Foreskin

In case your partner has not been circumcised, you have a lot more options to play with them. At first, ask them if they’re all right with it, as for some people this area might be too delicate for any sort of fun. In case they agreed, check the waters. You can try to pull the foreskin down, stretching it, or pulling it up over the head and using it to stimulate the delicate organ. There are many options, as it’s a very sensitive spot. Experiment on your own, but remember to check your partner’s reactions and make sure they are enjoying themselves.

Sum up

Some people think that handjobs are just a way to quickly get off, for others it might be a fun foreplay. You are your partner have to decide on your own whether do you want to incorporate them into your daily sex life. In case you’re currently single, but learn everything there is, knowing how to give a great handjob might come in handy a lot of times. There are a lot of techniques you can try, you can also incorporate your tongue, play with their balls or stimulate the prostate. A handjob doesn’t have to be just a handjob, have some fun and experiment.