A Sex Guide to Perfecting the 69 Position

Today’s sex guide is about oral sex, or to be more specific — getting horny with position 69. It looks alluring, but don’t dare to assume it’s easy. Actually, it takes way more coordination, cooperation, and skills than most sex positions. There’s more than one way to achieve it, which will be discussed in detail below. This position works for all genders, provided you know how to orally please your partner prior to trying it. All that being said, let’s jump right in!

Why is it called a position 69?

The name came from the way the two numbers look together. In case you somehow stumbled upon this sex guide not knowing what this position refers to, it means two lovers are simultaneously giving each other oral pleasures. Apparently, in some configurations, it resembles the two numbers.

Why is it one of the hardest sex positions?

A lot of people have trouble focusing on giving pleasure while feeling it, or the other way around. If that’s the case with you, don’t stress and just use position 69 as a great interruption between other actions or as a foreplay strategy. The other thing that gets in the way is lack of knowledge of your partner’s body. This is why you shouldn’t attempt it before learning how to give your partner the best oral sex experience in their life under normal circumstances. To do that, you might want to read our guide to perfect cunnilingus or how to perfect the blowjob. Don’t be afraid to use some extra help from sex toys and your hands, like incorporating prostate stimulation into the play.

Best positions to try 69-ing

Classic / Top-bottom — in this position, one person has to lie down on their back (it would be best if this role was taken by a man). The other will get on their hands and knees, so that their crotch will be directly above their partner’s head. Then, they can lower themselves, performing oral sex on their partner at the same time. The person on the bottom will have to grab the other’s hips and correct their position during the experience. 

Sideways — this position is great for beginners since none of the parties is in danger of choking. It might be slightly uncomfortable for two women, but unfortunately, all position 69 variants are a little uncomfortable for all couples. At least the pleasure makes up for it.

Pisces — this one is a little more advanced, but a very hot and popular take on the standard position. One person (the stronger one) sits on a couch or on the edge of the bed. The other gets on top of them, upside down. Ideally, the top person would wrap their legs around their lover’s neck, while they can hug their waist. It requires some elasticity and strength from both parties, but it’s worth it.

Standing / Upright — this is the hardest of the lot, since it requires immerse strength from one of the partners.  It’s like a classic 69, but standing up, just like the name suggest. You can start by assuming the Pisces position and then standing up.

Squatting / Zombie — have you ever heard of the downward-facing dog in yoga? This, essentially, is just that. One person sits on the floor, with their legs slightly open for easier access, while the other stands over them and bends over until they can reach their crotch with their mouth. 

On the edge — one parter lies on their back, with their head hanging off the edge of the bed, or on the couch. The other can then stand next to them and lean forward to their crotch. Just make sure the person on the bottom can breathe from time to time.

Yin-Yang — this one is another one of the hard ones. One person lies on their back and pull their legs up and towards themselves, while the another kneels over them. You can use it as a starter and then relax into the standard top-bottom position.

While the position 69 can be a great way to give your partner and yourself a great oral experience, it’s not for everyone. Remember, you don’t have to enjoy something just because it’s popular. The great thing about the position 69 is that both parties are equally involved, which means a lot for many couples. That being said, it does require a good skill set and communication. Try it out and check if that’s what work for you, and if not, stick with normal oral pleasures in this guide to slowing down foreplay.

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