When it comes to exploring sexuality, there are many ways to discover and enhance your pleasure. In today’s sex guide, we’re going to dive into the subject of sensory play. This practice incorporates all senses, therefore creating a more immersive and satisfying experience. Regardless if you’re single or in a relationship, the addition of sensory elements, like touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound, will give you unforgettable pleasures.
As usual, this sex guide is merely an introduction to the subject and a compilation of the most popular examples, you should decide if it’s for you and if you want to incorporate this practice into your daily sex life. Remember, before any sensory play, discuss boundaries with your partner, and maybe even discuss a safe word.
Exploring Touch in Sensory Play
Obviously, we can’t speak of sensory play without talking about the power of touch. It’s the best choice for beginners, but also one that’s most versatile. It can start with something as gentle and simple as caressing and finish with hard slaps. Using different tools and textures may also help in this experience. Before you begin, gently explore your, or your partner’s body, and find all the erogenous zones and sensitive areas that you might want to avoid. Consider using feathers or ribbons, these delicate touches will create a more intimate atmosphere.
The Art of Sensual Massage
Another great way is a massage, it doesn’t even have to be erotic at the beginning. A massage is usually a good foreplay, but in this case, it can be something more. Try covering your partner’s eyes, lighting some scented candles and then giving them a long massage, head to toe. Long, intimate touch deepens the emotional and sexual connection between partners. Before the fun, talk with your lover about their expectations, boundaries, and in case things like slapping or ticking are new to you, check their comfort level from time to time.
Exploring Taste in Sensation Play
The next sense we’ll discuss is taste, it’s also a popular choice. Properly done, this practice can open up a world of new possibilities, it can be more than just a foreplay or addition. Once again, the best way to incorporate it would be to use a blindfold, but it’s not necessary. You can start by experimenting with different food products, like strawberries, cherries, chocolate or whipped cream. Of course, you’re welcome to try another taste palette, like wine and intimate cheese tasting, but perhaps celery isn’t the most arousing option. Keep in mind that some foods are considered aphrodisiacs, either for their taste or properties. The most popular examples of tasty aphrodisiacs are figs, pineapples, watermelon, chocolate, and walnuts. In case you want to prepare a nice dinner instead of a bedroom tasting, you can choose a meal that would increase your libido and overall sex performance, for example oysters, avocados or high-protein meats.
Temperature Play and Beyond
Taste in an underrated sense, mainly because most of us eat in a hurry, but it can be a game changer. Apart from different foods and taste palettes, you can also experiment with temperature, like melted chocolate, ice cream or simple ice cubes. If you don’t believe in the power of ice, try oral sex with an ice cube in your mouth. Some people might go as far as letting the ice melt on them or even inside them, but be careful in the beginning. If you want to steer clear of eating in bed, you can opt-out for something as simple as a flavoured lubricant. However, regardless of your choice, be careful and check your and your partner’s allergies before using anything new. After ll, that’s not the kind of unforgettable experience you want to create.
Exploring Sight in Sensory Play
Another interesting and powerful part of sensory play is sight. By incorporating more visual elements into your sex life, you can play with the atmosphere and rekindle your passion. In every strip club, there’s a strict no-touch policy, but what if you take it to your bedroom? Make your partner watch you, without permission to touch you, and they’ll want you more than anything. You can start this game with something as simple as doing your house chores naked or dressed in a sexy outfit if you want to turn it into a maid role-play. If you feel comfortable with your dancing skills, you can perform an erotic dance or a striptease for your lover.
Enhancing Sensuality with Mirrors and Cameras
Another way to stimulate your partner visually is to use mirrors. You can place them in strategic spots, giving yourself or them the ability to watch your intercourse from a different angle. One of the popular examples is to place a mirror behind you, as you perform oral sex on your lover. If capturing this moment temporally isn’t enough for you, replace the mirror with the camera. An erotic photography session is good foreplay fun, as well as a kinky introduction to some forbidden role-play ideas. Exploring your partner’s body through a camera lens can be stimulating for both of you, and in case you both take a liking to it, you can move on to creating your own adult films. Watching your own sex tape together can be a powerful and alluring experience.
Creating Intimate Atmospheres with Lighting
To make your sex life even more visually pleasing, don’t forget about the light. Light is a powerful tool in art, but it can also create a very intimate and erotic atmosphere. Experiment with remote-controlled lights, candles, fairy lights, LED-s to find your match. Soft, dim lighting tends to create a seductive ambience, complete with some mirrors, scented candles and, as mentioned earlier, an erotic dance with a no-touch policy, and you have the recipe for a perfect night.
Sensation Play Through the Power of Smell
The sense of smell is a very controversial tool, due to various preferences on the subject. For some couples, the natural body musk is the most sexy thing on the entire planet, some even like the smell of sweat or not-so-fresh underwear, but this is an entirely different subject. Here, we’ll concentrate on incorporating different aromas, that are considered aphrodisiacs to create a nice, arousing atmosphere. Aromatherapy is most commonly associated with relaxing and anti-stress scents, but few know that it can be used in a very different manner. Experiments with different essential oils, like jasmine, ginger, vanilla, or ylang-ylang. These scents are known as aphrodisiacs, and while they don’t work like a magical impotency solution, they can be a pleasant addition to the bedroom fun.
Harnessing the Power of Pheromones
Apart from aromatherapy, don’t forget about the power of pheromones. Unfortunately, the market is filled to the brim with fake products that claim to be pheromone-based, so you have to be careful with your choices. Most of the actual pheromone products are either perfumes or body oils, and they really can intensify your experience. Remember to check the ingredients list for any potential allergies. Also, don’t use too many aromatherapy products at once, as too many scents in one room may cause dizziness and overall are quite unpleasant. It’s best to experiment with one scent at a time.
Expanding Sensation Play with Sound
The last, but not least, element of sensory play is the sense of sound. Here, the possibilities are vast, but largely based on your preferences. While some people will thrive in typical erotic music, created for sexy dances, others may hate it. Thankfully, there are enough music genres for everyone. It can be anything, from slow instrumental ambience, to sensual jazz, and electronic thrills.
Intimate Conversations in Sensory Play
But, this sensory play doesn’t end on music. The gentle whispers, passionate moans and screams of pleasure can serve as a form of arousing conversation. Have you ever tried sending your lover an intimate voice message? If music and vocal cords don’t give you enough auditory stimulation, sex toys offer quite a lot in that matter. From leather whips and wooden paddles, all the way to vibrators, all of these sex toys can make intriguing sounds.
Rhythmic Sounds in Sensory Play
Rhythmic tapping of a sex toy against the bed or other surface creates an aura of anticipation. You can even use just your nails for that. Another way to use the sound of hearing in your sensory play is by using audio effects in your role-play scenarios. Some people use the sounds of a busy store to have a fake public sex experience, others just use immersive dialogue and befitting soundtrack.
Spice Up Your Bedroom with Sensation Play
To sum up this sex guide, the sensory play opens up a whole world of new possibilities and there are many ways to incorporate it. It can deepen your connection, as well as enhance your sex life. However, it’s crucial to remember that open conversation, consent, and respect for boundaries are the most important in every sexual encounter. Before trying anything new, talk with your lover about it. Some people may have issues with too much sensory stimulation, and they can be unaware of that, which is why we always stress the importance of the safe word.
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