We mentioned previously that there are such things like humiliation and degradation in our domination sex guide. Today, we will unravel the mystery behind those terms. Degradation kink is gaining in popularity as days go by, simply because of the rising numbers of BDSM fans. To put it short, it means that a person, called a submissive, is gaining sexual pressure from getting humiliated or otherwise offended. There is so much more that goes into that, including different types of degradation, which we will discuss below.
This fetish requires a third party to act as a viewer, or even better viewers. Sometimes, it’s just about being watched while performing sexual interactions, but it can also be about humiliating the submissive publicly. It can be done face to face, or on an according social media platform.
Most popular examples are: having sex in public (in a car, nightclub, changing room), posting sex tapes and streaming, making them use sex toys in public (like remote controlled vibrating egg), going to public BDSM shows.
This is the most common type of the degradation kink, it consists of berating the submissive, but the main target is their sexual performance of their genitalia. It’s a frequent theme in the BDSM role plays, as well as more extreme JOI-s.
It can be achieved by: forcing the sub to perform sexual acts outside their comfort zone (in this type of relationship consent is always granted, it’s all about pretending), edging or orgasm denial, overstimulation, making them watch porn (as a lesson on what they should be doing), insulting their skills and genitalia.
It can be both sexual or non-sexual, but the central concept stays the same. The submissive’s body is getting used, as if it’s not a human, but a toy. It’s a common role play in BDSM circles. Sometimes there’s also name-calling aspect involved.
The most common ways to do it are: cumming or spitting on their face and body, golden showers, making them eat your sperm, treating them like animals or things, making them do chores, making them follow a dress code, indulging in bondage.
A popular practice, that takes many forms. It’s about taunting, name-calling and in general talking down to the submissive. The attacks are meant to attack their dignity, skills and personal worth. Most commonly, it’s limited to only calling them a sex worker or a sex addict.
It’s usually done by: making them feel like they’re not on the same level as you (use belittling and offending nicknames like girl, boy, pussy, idiot, dickhead), mocking their existence, insulting them, objectifying them, swearing at them, making them call you a certain term (like sir, madam, daddy).
How to set the boundaries?
Contrary to popular belief, setting down boundaries is very important in BDSM world. Whether it’s just a mild play, or a full on degradation, you should know what your partner expects from you, and also inform them what you expect in return. It’s always better to double-check everything and make sure nobody’s going to get hurt in the process, as it’s really hard to tell with the humiliation kink. Remember to choose the safe word too, it’s the most significant part of every encounter.
Why you should try it?
The rising popularity of the humiliation kink has been a surprise for many people. It seems more like being mean and hurtful instead of having fun, but actually, both sides are getting much more than you would expect. The dominant obviously loves to be in charge, and already is, but by trying degradation, they’re using their partners to the absolute maximum. It’s like their superiority is taken to the next level. Basically, it’s just an extra ego boost. And they also take pleasure in treating the sub in such ways. What about the sub, then? What do they gain? We can say that it’s simple, as they love to serve their masters. It’s probably good enough for some of them, the other side is that, many submissives just like being called names or degraded in any shape or form. Some of the times it’s not about the role play on its own, but for what happens after. A lot of dominants choose to make them feel better and console them after a session.
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