The Orgasm Guide – How to Make a Woman Climax

This sex guide will concentrate on the subject as old as time itself – how to make a woman climax. It should be simple, females are even capable of having multiple orgasms, but a surprising percentage of them never experienced any. The latest polls suggest many women think they’re asexual or simply incapable of having an orgasm until way too late in life. Asexuality is a valid sexual orientation, but if your partner isn’t sure what they’re feeling and is willing to explore it, do your best to help them. For some women finishing is simpler, some struggle, and ultimately it’s no one’s fault, but it wouldn’t hurt to try harder to please your significant other, would it? Enhance your sex life with these simple tips.

G spot – a fact or a myth?

Everyone heard about the mysterious G spot, but is it real? Its existence was questioned many times, and to this day, it’s not entirely confirmed. However, it’s true that a certain part is more receptive to stimulation than the rest of the cervix. Your lady will definitely agree to let you try to locate it. In most cases, it’s positioned approximately 2-3 inches deep on the upper cervix wall. In rare cases, the cervix is bent, it might mean you’d be unable to actually reach the G spot and hurt your lady in the process. For your first try, be gentle and make sure your partner is wet and aroused before you start fingering her. You should be able to feel the G spot with your finger, but not necessarily. It would feel like a little bump, a very sensitive little bump. Have your significant other navigate you on how to properly stimulate it, since you can hurt her by going too fast or too hard. If you truly want her to have an unforgettable orgasm, suck on her clitoris while fingering her, she would definitely appreciate it.

Multiple orgasms

Women are capable of having multiple orgasms. Let that thought sink in. It doesn’t mean they always come multiple times, some of them will never experience it, but their bodies are capable of doing that. Now, as a good partner, you should explore how to help your lady achieve that. First of all, start with a long foreplay, it can be an erotic massage or something more kinky, depending on what she likes. Perhaps, you can make her orgasm once or twice with just foreplay. After that, you can have regular intercourse, but with breaks every so often to restrain yourself from finishing first. One female orgasm lasts about 2 minutes, that’s counted from start to the end of muscle spasms. Some women would prefer for you to stop stimulation during that time frame, some would want you to go harder, this is something that should be discussed. Make your partner create a list of her favourite positions, kinks and other sex life related fun, and use it as a pointer. In the end, everything is possible if you try hard enough.

Alternative ways to please her 

There are numerous reasons for your significant other not to want vaginal intercourse. The obvious next choice would be anal sex, but many people are against that practice, not to mention enjoy it. On the human body there are many erogenous spots, namely: ears, behind ears, neck, breasts, nipples, inner thighs and for some, feet. First, check which one works best for your lady, then see what type of stimulation she likes. The most popular are: tickling (with toys or without), blowing air, licking, kissing, using vibrators on them, or more extreme like scratching, electrocuting and pouring hot wax. Whatever way works for her, should get her to orgasm, but keep in mind it will take much longer time. You can also encourage her to explore more kinks, like bondage, orgasm denial, foot fetish or role playing, as you both may find more things you’re into.

As it’s always the case with sex guides, you have to figure out what to do on your own. Remember to keep your bedroom fun safe and respect each others’ boundaries. Even if you fail to get her to the finish line each time you’re having sex, that’s not the most important thing. Every body is different, there’s no magical formula for the best sex life. The key is to communicate and listen to your partner’s needs first and foremost. Keep exploring each other and have fun!

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