Why Foreplay is the Secret Sauce for a Passionate Relationship

If you feel like your erotic life is missing something, this sex guide is for you. Nowadays, foreplay is considered unnecessary or overrated by some people, mostly men, but it shouldn’t be this way. Even if your love is still strong, it’s important that you both enjoy yourselves to the fullest in the bedroom. Not everyone needs time to get aroused, maybe you want to jump straight into the sex part, but a good foreplay will help you enhance that experience. Take your time exploring each other’s bodies like you’re teenagers again, and you’ll star seeing the results soon enough. A good sex life is a key to a happy relationship, not onto how to achieve it.

Set the mood for romance

Going to the bedroom enough to set the proper mood for romance. Try lighting up some candles, playing romantic, even erotic music in the background. Perhaps you can massage your partner? Or just watch a film together, one that really sets the mood. Also, remember to tidy up the room. Whereas it might not be a problem for you, your partner might concentrate all the attention on the fact that there are dirty clothes lying around or that the floor should be vacuumed. Eliminate all the distractions that can possibly take away yours or your partner’s attention from each other. You can also reminisce about your first time together. Your first kiss, first time you held hands, your first date, or maybe the best sex you had. Talk about all the little things they do to you, that gets you going. Everyone has their feel-good and feel-bad areas on their bodies, and that’s definitely should be talked through with your partner. Take your time touching every single area and discuss whether it was something that they like.

Slow it down a notch

It seems like everyone is in a hurry to get somewhere. Especially these days, when the world basically revolves around earning money. But one place where you shouldn’t be in a hurry is in bed. Whether you are worried that your children will wake up and scream for you to come, or that you have to get up early for work, you need to take your time pleasing each other. Remember, it’s about romance, not just getting off.  The first thing you should do is slowly undress. Instead of simply taking off your clothes or quickly stripping down, you should do it slowly. If you don’t feel quite ready for a proper striptease, you can just remove your partner’s clothing one by one, starting by the shirt, going down to the bottoms, socks and then at the end reaching for the underwear. You can also try removing some clothes only with your mouth. And remember to kiss every little inch of skin that you uncover. And then you can go to bed, once again taking your time. You don’t need to jump at each other like feral animals. Try kissing, hugging, gently touching each other bodies. And even if you both want to skip straight into penetration, take a while to just take in your partner’s touch on your body and your touch on their.

Together but going solo

Another thing that really helps couples that are struggling with boring sex life is masturbation. You might wonder why would masturbation help with sex? Well, the answer is quite simple, really. Imagine this: you slowly undress each other, kiss for such a long time that your mouth is swollen, and then you just lie one next to another, and you start touching yourself. You see your partner slowly, slowly getting warmed up, their hands on their private areas, or maybe sensually touching their body. And that’s precisely what gets you going. Obviously, after you are both properly worked up, you can start exploring each other’s bodies, but until then just watch your partner give pleasure to themselves and do the same. It will drive you crazy to see them feeling good and both being the reason for it, but also not doing anything to them. Soon enough, you’ll both be begging for each other’s touch.

Bring toys to the play

Sometimes all these methods are just not enough, and you need some additional help, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. There are a lot of sex available that will make your foreplay extra special. For starters, if you don’t feel quite ready for vibrators and other toys, you can wear a sexy underwear. This is something that both genders can do, and it’s guaranteed that your partner will love to see you in something sexy. Even if BDSM is quite not your thing, you might still get into handcuffs or a simple collar. Another toy, that might help you, is not even a toy – a simple blindfold. It doesn’t even have to be from a sex shop. It can be just normal, everyday blindfold, a scarf, or even a tie, but wore in proper circumstances. Once blindfolded, all your senses will be heightened, you’ll feel like every touch is ten times more intense. The next thing that really can get you going are vibrators. And they are not only for women. You can simply move the vibrator across your partner’s body, especially in the nipples area and the inner thighs, since these are the most erotogenic zones. You can also try nipple clamps or electrostimulation, if that’s more your style.

Is good foreplay enough?

The last question about this sex guide that you might have: is foreplay enough? How is just taking a little bit more time in the bedroom going to make your sex better? How is a simple touch going to enhance your romance? And, supposedly, so much that you’d have amazing sex for the rest of your life. The key to the spectacular sex life is communication. Talk to one another, ask them how they feel when are touching them here. Is it better if you kiss them here instead of there? Take your time, do it slowly. And nothing is going to tell your partner more that you appreciate that they’re here with you, that you appreciate their body. It doesn’t have to be special, it doesn’t have to lead to intercourse. You can even start foreplay by just sexting throughout the day. Usually after a couple of years, you might feel like your partner no longer desires you, you might feel like sex is just a thing you do in the evening because you should. Just be creative, sext with them, leave a little spicy note here and there. And then show them what they truly mean to you in the bedroom.

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