Not everyone wants to talk about this one. It gets shrugged off, called strange, even laughed at. Rimming — or what I’d rather call brimming — isn’t obvious, not like a kiss or a caress. But curiosity has a way of nagging at you, doesn’t it? And if you ever do let yourself wander there, you might find it’s not half as shocking as you once thought.
Getting ready
Clean matters. More than you think. A shower first, soft towel nearby. Maybe even your favourite soap, the one that makes you smell like you. It’s not about scrubbing so much as giving both of you a little reassurance. Hard to relax if you’re second-guessing, right?
The not-so-sexy bit (but important)
I’ll say it: health. It’s close contact, so there are risks. Some couples ignore it, others use a dental dam — thin latex, not exactly the height of seduction, but it works. You can even cut a condom if that’s all you’ve got. Not glamorous, but sometimes peace of mind is sexier than bravado.
Mood before method
Truth is, there’s no real “technique.” What matters is the build-up. A few kisses in places you don’t usually linger, a laugh when one of you feels silly. Music low, phone on silent. Half the excitement comes from stepping into the unknown together. Curiosity doesn’t always follow the usual paths. From agalmatophilia to timophilia takes a look at some of the rarer kinks people quietly carry.
Positions (because comfort wins)
Experiment. A pillow under the hips, leaning forward on the bed, or simply lying back with knees loose. There’s no single right way — move until you’re not cramping or pulling something. Keep cushions close; nothing kills the moment like a dead leg.
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Where it might lead
Some stop here, satisfied with the novelty of it. Others drift further — maybe into more adventurous play, maybe just deeper connection before circling back to familiar ground. If you do carry on, remember: slower is kinder, and lube is your friend.
Final thought
You won’t know how you feel about brimming until you’ve either tried it or decided firmly it’s not for you. Both answers are valid. The only mistake is doing it because you think you “should.” When it’s mutual, safe, and a little playful — it can feel like discovering a private joke no one else quite gets. And if the pull leans toward something more daring, taboo play escorts bring space to step beyond the ordinary — always framed by choice and care.
💌 Sophia Hart’s Intimacy Note:
It’s never about mastering a trick. It’s about the trust that comes when you both let the moment be a bit ridiculous, a bit daring. If you can laugh and still carry on, you’re already doing it right.