A Guide to Choosing Sex Toys for Everyone

Today’s sex guide is a continuation of last week’s introduction to the vast subject of sex toys for women. This article will centre around types of toys you can enjoy with a partner, regardless of your gender. Some toys will enhance your vanilla experience, some will make it more spicy. As always, remember it’s just for fun, so both of you should be on board with the idea. And don’t worry gents, we didn’t forget about you! Sex toys designed for men will be discussed next week, stay tuned!

Why should you pay a visit to a sex shop?

Sex toys have been invented with only one task — to enhance the sexual life of the masses. Some are meant to be used for masturbation, some will revive your sexual life and others will help your kinkiest, darkest desires come to reality. They’re also a handy tool for exploring other erogenous zones than just your crotch. Apart from that, they can be a great help for people struggling with various sex-related problems (e.g. erectile dysfunction, decreased libido, pelvic floor dysfunction and more).

Types of toys for couples

There are a lot of different types of sex toys, which we split into only three categories: penetrative, non-penetrative and fetish. It’s not nearly enough, but we strive to make our sex guides accessible and helpful to everyone, and this simple categorisation is the most friendly.

Penetrative:

• Dildos — there are many different kinds, from silicone to glass, starting with finger size and ending on… Well, you get the idea. Dildos can be used in many ways, the most popular being threesome fantasy and femdom. Not every dildo resembles a real dick, some are more neutral in style, which also comes in handy.
• Vibrators — while some are just dildos with vibration function, there are also egg vibes that can be used alongside penetration.
• Strap-ons — they’re just like dildos, but instead of the classic design, they can be mounted on one partner’s crotch.
• Butt plugs — some of them also vibrate. There are even ones that are designed in such a way they stimulate the prostate. Always pay close attention to the description, since some butt plugs can be used only anally, and some are also good for vaginal penetration. They can be used for foreplay before actual anal intercourse.
• Anal beads — unlike butt plugs, they’re meant for moving around. The special bead design will stimulate your rectum while pulling it out, they’re also a great help with stretching for anal penetration.
• Prostate massagers — most of them vibrate, but not all. The biggest difference from other anal toys is that these toys are made specifically for prostate stimulation. Obviously, women can still use it, but it won’t be as thrilling for them.

Non-penetrative:

• Cock rings — special rings that stop men from finishing too quickly, use them with caution.
• Ring vibrators — similar to cock rings, they’re meant to be put on a penis for additional stimulation. You can also use them on a dildo to create a makeshift vibrator.
• Clitoris suckers — little devices used for sucking on a clitoris for an extra kick.
• Nipple suckers and vibrators — similar to clitoris suckers (sometimes one can be used for both), but meant to stimulate the nipples. They can be a key for achieving a nipple orgasm.

Fetish:

• Nipple clamps — designed to clamp nipples, there are different types with different levels of intensity.
• Handcuffs — perfect for various role plays and a great introduction to a world of bondage. Most of them can be easily broken, which is great if your submissive isn’t so sure about submitting.
• Electro stimulators — there are many kinds, some attach to nipples, some to clitoris, labia, or ball sack. You need to be very careful when playing with them.
• Various whips  — they don’t require an introduction, if you’re into this kind of fun, you’ll find your perfect match.
• Gags   — some are meant to keep your partner quiet, but some will keep their mouth open. Choose wisely.
• Collars  — not every collar comes with a leash, some are purely decorative, but sometimes it’s nice to have something to pull on.

Safe fun

There are a few crucial things you have to remember to keep your bedroom escapades safe. If you’re playing with anal toys, use toys that are designed for that, since they have a flared base. It’s not only for easier use, it prevents them from going too deep inside the rectum. Also, regardless of where you want to put a dildo, be careful. Even an erect penis is softer than some materials, therefore using a hard dildo at the wrong angle or too fast, you can seriously harm yourself. Another important thing is lubrication, not every lube can be used with silicone toys, always do your reading beforehand. And the last, and most important, warning: clean your toys after every use! Have fun and keep exploring!

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