You might have heard the word femdom somewhere. The name sounds curious, doesn’t it? “Fem” obviously coming from the word female and “dom” from dominance. It’s a part of BDSM spectrum, and it’s gaining on popularity nowadays. This sex guide will concentrate on things that beginners can do on their way to become a dominatrix. Today, we will concentrate on a practise called gentle femdom. Think of it as domination without the extreme elements, like choking and waxing. It still can be sexual, BDSM based or a role play. In this guide, we’ll be talking strictly about females in the role of dominants, but their submissives can be of any gender.
What exactly is a domina?
To put it simple, it’s a woman that indulges in BDSM practices as the dominant side, but that isn’t everything. It takes a certain personality and drive to be dominant like this, although that doesn’t mean you cannot learn it. The problem is, you have to have it in you before you begin. Don’t worry, it’s not like it’s uncommon or something. If you are reading this sex guide, you probably already are considering becoming a dominatrix on your own. And if you are, that would mean you have this thing. You don’t have to be particularly kinky, or enjoy punishing or otherwise hurting your partner. Domination goes way beyond that. It’s about being in control, being someone that can and will do anything, if their sub deserves it.
Gentle fendom ideas
Bondage – we already talked about bondage recently, you shouldn’t have an issue finding out how to properly do this.
Foot worship – quite a few of escorts shared on our website their experiences with food worship, you can take example of them.
Edging / orgasm denial – that’s also one of the subject we already spoke about. But in case you don’t remember, it’s prolonging the sweet release and balancing on the thin line between pleasure and pain. It can be performed on both women or men.
Role play – whether it’s cuckolding or a power play, it’s a fair game. Anything will work as long as there is one dominant side and one submissive.
Humiliation – this is something you might not be into. It depends on what your relationship with your partner looks like. Basically, it evolves around humiliating your partner in every way possible.
How to start indulging in femdom?
First things first, talk with your partner. They or you might be scared and it’s normal. Everyone is afraid of losing control and giving someone full access to their body. Even if you are in a long-term, trusting, healthy relationship. Female domination isn’t for everyone. It requires something more than just love or support: the ability to trust your partner entirely. And that doesn’t come easy. Start with showing your partner some videos, articles, ask them if being dominated is something they might be into.
Subtle way to start dominating
A good training before going full on femdom on your partner, includes using some domination techniques in your daily life, outside of bed. At first, you can get your significant other used to fulfilling your wishes. Start with simple commands, like asking them to bring you water before going to sleep. It might sound weird, but if your partner isn’t used to listening to you, they have to learn somehow. Once you start doing female domination for real, they are going to have to obey your every whim. Start simple and train them.
What toys do you need?
Actually, you don’t need any toys. It depends on what you are going to do. If you are set on bondage, then check out our other articles to see what types of rope would be the best to do that. Other things that you might be interested in is tickling, in which case you would be looking at gentle whips and feathers. Also spanking, then you would do best buying crops or paddles? Some people go as far as using electrostimulation, but this is something, you should learn more about before trying. There are also a bunch of small accessories that might make female domination more interesting, such as cock rings in case your significant other is a male, or gender-neutral nipple clamps. Also – vibrating, butt plugs. Some women like to go as far as pegging their partner, regardless of their gender. But that might not be for you, and it’s all right.
To sum up, femdom isn’t for everyone. Are you going to enjoy it? If you read this whole sex guide, probably yes. Start gentle and then climb your way to becoming a domina. It’s way easier than you might think, as long as you have as supporting obedient partner, and enough enthusiasm. It will take you no time. Remember to always communicate, every step of the way, even if you want them to just break and fulfil your wishes. Ask first if that’s all right. Also remember that in practising female domination, you should obey the same laws as during regular BDSM practices, which here means that you have to have a safe word. Have fun making your partner your slave!
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