As we already established last week, people tend to get bored. It’s inevitable, although still sad. To avoid monotony with your partner and keep that spark going, we prepared a list of sex tips you can implement. Let’s make a note now that before you begin, you should first talk to your partner and read the first part of this sex guide to keeping the spark alive, as feelings are way more important than sexual relations. Also, remember that every relationship is different and things that may work for you. It will only work for some couples. Don’t get discouraged if the sex tapes we mentioned are salty or issues, simply try something different. If, however, your partner is unwilling to try anything to salvage your relationship, then the fire you are trying to reignite wasn’t there in the first place.
Vanilla is also a spice
Not all people are overly sexual, and that’s all right, too. If your sex life is more on the vanilla side, you can try simple things to make it fun again. Don’t let anybody call you basic when you walk into a sex store just to buy sexy underwear. They can say whatever they want, but your partner would be thrilled to see your new sexy outfit for the evening. After you purchase your new creation, it might also be useful to find something to do. Not everyone is a fan of foreplay, but everyone likes to be relaxed, so why not try an erotic massage instead? Actually, it doesn’t even have to be erotic. Just grab some oils, candles and help your partner lose the daily stress and worries.
Eye for an eye
Since you’re looking for articles to enhance your sex life, you might already not remember what was it like to see an entire world in somebody’s eyes. That’s alright, we are here to remind you of it. Your significant other is still the same person you fell in love with, even if many things have changed between you. You can still feel like you did when you first started dating them. Remember how a simple brush of their hand would get you in the mood? Well, try to refresh your memory. First, kiss and touch each other. Don’t do the same boring moves you do every night. Try to explore your bodies anew, like clumsy teenagers. Slowly build the tension and get aroused, you can even use your favourite toys. And then? Have sex in positions that will allow you to maintain eye contact during the whole experience. Why would that be important? Eye contact is incredibly vital when it comes to intimate moments, some people are even unable to do it. However, it shouldn’t be a problem for a couple, and it will create a more intimate atmosphere. You can do it in missionary, or the passive side can sit on the active side’s lap. There are thousands of options. Remember, you can also maintain eye contact while orally pleasing your partner.
Make it public
Now, before you run away screaming, you don’t have to take any drastic measures. This sex guide is merely a tool to help you navigate your sex life, not a rulebook. We know that not everybody likes to share, and that’s your right. For some couples, swinging might actually help them become closer, but for some it’s simply unimaginable. You can just watch erotic videos together. Put on a video of another couple of doing it on the big screen, and watch them as you do the same. If you feel brave enough, go and have sex in public. Seeing, hearing, or just knowing that other people are nearby, will definitely spice things up. Don’t worry, you don’t have to risk getting arrested, just go to a dark room in a club. In case you are interested. If you’re interested in much darker fantasies, you can always go to BDSM dungeon and try to have some fun there. Inviting a third party might also be a good idea, but only if you both agree to that. There are couples that became closer than ever after trying love triangles, or even incorporating them into their daily sex life, but there are also couples that split up because of it. If a simple thought of your significant other with someone else makes your blood boil, don’t do it.
If you read both parts of this sex guide and did everything we spoke about, and yet you’re still unable to fix your relationship, seek the help of the professional. As long as you both are willing to change, adjust and work your very best towards maintaining your relationship happy and sexy, there is still hope for you. The most important thing is that you’re both willing to do it. Do not stay with someone who doesn’t want to try for you. It’s sad and hard to accept, but no initiative means no interest.
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