One of our previous sex guides was about sensory stimulation, today we’ll also talk about senses, but in a quite different way. The term sensory deprivation may be a nuisance to you, and you’re not alone with that. In sexual subjects, sensory deprivation means limiting one or more senses to experience more pleasure. There are many techniques which will be discussed below, but before you start experimenting, perhaps you should go back to our sensory stimulation guide and learn how each sense works in particular. A blindfold won’t be helpful if you don’t know how to make someone squirm from just a touch.Â
Enhancing Intimacy with Touch Techniques
Touch is considered the most important sense when it comes to sexual activities. The inability to touch your partner is one of the most common reasons for break-ups in long-distance relationships. Of course, cybersex is also gaining in popularity, but it’s still incomparable to being physically close. However, with the advancement of technology, couples can now enhance their cybersex experience through innovative methods such as cybersex app-controlled toys. The limitation of touch during intercourse is a powerful tool that can greatly improve the whole experience. There are a couple of ways this can be done, which we’ll discuss below.
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You probably heard of the famous no-touch policy in strip clubs, but have you tried implementing it at home? Try your strength at stripping or sexy dancing, and make your partner watch without the ability to touch you. Maybe change the rules a bit and touch them, or try your strength at edging. You can also try to change it up a little and touch yourself when your lover watches.
Mutual Masturbation
Similar to the previous proposition, prohibit your partner from touching you, but this time let them touch themselves. You can lie down in bed together and masturbate, without touching each other.
Bondage
While bondage is considered BDSM territory, it doesn’t have to be. You can start with something simple like sexy handcuffs or a tie, these types of bonds can be broken if needed, therefore giving you the illusion of control. With bondage, the control play is inevitable, but it’s your choice whether you’re going to use it to dominate or increase your partner’s pleasure by, for example, edging them.
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Enhancing Sensual Experience through Sight Deprivation
Everyone knows that all senses heighten when you’re blindfolded, but actually putting this knowledge to work during sexual activities will be a true eye-opening experience. From various role play scenarios to tantric sex — being blindfolded changes all. The act of blindfolding opens up a world of intimacy, by letting go of your most essential sense, you’re giving up all the control to your partner. This will let you explore each other on another level. Every touch, or even something as simple as a breath on your skin, will feel much better. Without sight, all feeling and sounds amplify, but it’s not only about that. Letting someone blindfold you, is a sign of trust and it’ll help deepen your connection.
Among popular activities to try blindfolded are:
- Toy play — there are a lot of toys, sex toys for men and sex toys for women, that will make this time extra special.
- Edging — this practice is already very sensual, but a blindfold heightens it. Sex Guide: Take Your Pleasure to the Edge.
- Tickling — you don’t have to fetishise it to enjoy a gentle stroke of feathers in the most surprising moments. Try tickling.
- Oral sex — both men and women will be thrilled with a long oral session, while unable to see what will happen next. Find out how in our guides to giving the perfect blowjob and pleasing a woman with oral.
- Spanking — it can be gentle and subtle, or hard and sudden, you can’t predict that blind. Sex Guide to Erotic Spanking.
- Electrostimulation — if it’s not your cup of tea, feel free to explore less rough toys.
- Hot wax — once again, we’re in the BDSM category, but that’s where blindfolds are most common.
Remember about safety during all of these practises, as you’re more prone to getting hurt while blind. Apart from establishing clear boundaries and a safe word, you also should take a notion of your surroundings to prevent any possible accident.
Deepening Intimate Connection Through Sound Deprivation
Limitation of hearing during sex might seem odd, if not pointless, but it has its reasons. Sounds or lack of thereof are a powerful tool that has a strong imprint on your emotions and how you perceive situations. Silence can create a sacred space, where only those allowed can enter. This will deepen your emotional connection and your relationship will flourish like never before. Cutting off all communication makes you and your partner rely on vague non-verbal cues. It’s like a tool to better understand your partner better. Every touch and look carries a whole meaning behind it, and the longer you stay quiet, the more you’ll learn about your lover’s body language.
Safe Practices in Sensory Deprivation
Our sex guides always stress the importance of safe sexual practices. Usually, that involves protection, good communication and respecting each other’s boundaries, but it’s a tad different when it comes to sensory deprivation. While talking to your partner is always essential, this time it’s going to have to be more in depth. Sensory deprivation techniques outside the bedroom are used for relaxation and stress relief, but at the same time they may cause distress to some individuals. While serious health issues are a rare occurrence, it still can happen. If you or your lover have any sort of mental disorder (including depression or anxiety), you have to be cautious while playing. It’s important to note that the effects of sensory deprivation can vary among individuals, and while there are potential risks, there are also benefits such as stress reduction and improved relationship bond. Some people say the sensory deprivation helps their mental health, but sometimes in can lead to an increase in anxiety and similar problems. It’s essential to consider individual differences and potential side effects when exploring these types of activities. Remember that your well-being is of the utmost importance and whether you’re able to practise sensory deprivation with your parter is not only dependent on your trust in them, but also on your own mental health. Communicate clearly each step of the way and take breaks if needed.Â
Embracing Sensory Exploration for Enhanced Intimacy
To sum up this sex guide, you should have fun with exploring all your senses in the bedroom, regardless if it’s sensory stimulation or deprivation. At the same time, it’s not only about physical senses, but also the emotional connection. Learning to trust your partner deep enough to feel comfortable practising the above activities is an essential key to building a strong relationship based on mutual respect and honesty. Keep in mind that, no matter how comfortable you are with your partner, you should still have a safe word that you can rely on both during a sexual encounter and in everyday interactions if you encounter a miscommunication.
If you enjoyed this guide about sensory deprivation, why not delve deeper into the world of sensual exploration with our escort’s story of sight deprivation? Discover how sensory experiences can ignite passion and intimacy in unexpected ways.
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