Think Outside the Box: Try Tickling as a BDSM Session!

Consensual tickling or simply a tickling fetish is an uncommon kink that centres around various forms of tickling. For that reason, many people may find it strange or straight up unappealing, after all it’s not that great to be tickled. Surprisingly, for some it is. They say that laughter is the best medicine, but I bet you never suspected it’s a great aphrodisiac. In today’s sex guide instalment, we’ll discuss what exactly consensual tickling is and how to get started. As always, remember that the only limits in sex, are the ones you set yourself.

What exactly is it?

Sexual tickling doesn’t really differ from “normal” one. The only factor that changes is that the person getting tickled gets aroused by it, which actually isn’t even always the case. As it’s often a part of a BDSM session, sometimes it’s all about being dominated by someone. In that case it’s even better if it doesn’t make you aroused, as it turns into an actual torture. For those who practise consensual tickling outside of the BDSM scene, it’s more of a form of foreplay or a nice, long teasing that usually turns into something more. 

Is tickling dangerous for you?

Out of all kinks that fit under the BDSM umbrella, this is probably the safest one. Obviously, you should have a safe word nevertheless, and make sure that your partner knows your limits. In case you suffer from weak heart, asthma or other respiratory problems, you have to be very careful and avoid longer sessions. Keep in mind that even healthy people need to take a breather sometimes, and you can still faint if you overdo it. Also, if you’re using restraints, don’t bind the chest area to tightly.

Choose your weapon

In the community, the toys used for tickling are called weapons or weaponry. It’s funny, since neither of them can actually harm you, but that’s the official phrasing. Here’s the list of most common ones:

• Feathers – from small, artificial ones, through delicate peacock’s, all the way to feather dusters. It’s very easy to tickle someone with feathers, and they work especially great in highly erogenous spots, like inner thighs, neck or nipples.
• Brushes – makeup brushes or paint ones are the most common, but some people go as far as electric toothbrushes. The harder the material, the tougher to tickle with it, but it all comes with practice.
• Twines and ribbons – just hang them over your partner and gently slide them up and down, so that the tip barely touches their skin. This is more of an edging practice in tickling.
• And last but not least: you! Use your hands, fingernails, hair, lips and tongue, everything is fair game. 

Lees and Lers 

What are those? Those are slang terms meaning the ones being tickled (Ticklees, in short Lees) and the ones tickling (Ticklers, in short Lers). As we established, tickling is an uncommon fetish, but there are a lot of communities where you can find a Ler to your Lee, or the other way around. Don’t be afraid to join them and explore your sexuality. Of course, if you can, you should try it with your partner. If they also have never done something like this before, join a tickling community in your area and see if they’re any public meetings. As it’s a part of the BDSM scene, there are shows where you can see how the torture of a Ticklee really looks like. In case you’re too shy to do something like this, you can always just chat with other tickling fetishists about their experience.

Am I made for this?

So, you’ve enjoyed reading this sex guide, but you’re still not convinced? As it comes with most kinks, you can either be born with it or fall in love after trying it. You may not even know that you’re into tickling. Most people never tried to tickle someone in a romantic setting, unless it was a joke, same goes for being tickled. Maybe it doesn’t turn you on outside of your bedroom? Or maybe it’s the idea of getting tied up and tickled to tears that appeals for you? On which end do you picture yourself? Don’t be afraid to try new things, it might be a start of something great for you.

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