A Guide For Exploring Foot Fetish Thrills

Today’s sex guide’s subject is so popular nowadays, that pretty much everyone has heard of it. Although, that doesn’t mean everybody knows what exactly it means. You haven’t guessed what it is yet? Well, today’s main theme is foot fetish. Most people have never even thought of their feet as sexy. Actually, most people don’t think about their feet that much. But in case you start dating someone, that enjoys this kind of pleasure. Well, you need to learn a couple of things. And no, it isn’t only about footjobs. Try to be open about the subject, and remember: no kink deserves to be shamed. 

Let’s start with the definition

What exactly falls under the term foot fetish? Technically, it all comes down to two categories: clean feet and dirty feet. Sometimes, it can also be a combination of two: cleaning the dirty feet. Obviously there are also preferences like big feet, small feet, hairy feet, even feet that are certain shapes. It not always has to have anything to do with sex. Your partner may simply enjoy you wearing a sexy pair of stockings, using a foot lotion or watching you wiggle your toes.

Most common variations of foot fetishes

As with everything, there is a certain standard. Following is a list and short explanation of the most common practices of this kind of kink. 

Trampling – it’s a BDSM term that means basically having someone walk over you. It can be as gentle as foot-on-face massage, or a more intense pressure. Sometimes your partner will ask you to wear high heels and step on their sensitive parts. Sex guide on the matter is coming soon.

Smelling your feet – this might make you feel uncomfortable at first, but overall it could always be worse.

Cleaning your feet – usually it would be done by tongue, but not always. It can transform into applying some lotions and doing your pedicure.

Licking and sucking your feet – a surprising amount of people just enjoy sucking the toes. Just try not to kick your partner in the face when it tickles. 

Footjob – it’s just like a handjob, but using your feet. Not that hard to learn, although quite uncomfortable, due to different positions. Seldom, your partner will only ask to run your feet against their sensitive areas instead of going all the way.

How to get them into foot fetish?

Let’s say you want to worship your partner’s feet, but you don’t know how to start the subject. Begin by complementing their feet, and make the compliments really sexy. Try to start the conversation, but remember to begin with explaining the definition and telling them what you’re expecting. In case you are on the other side, the process might be harder, but try not to give up too early. And don’t be frustrated in case your partner doesn’t want to help you in this matter. You can help warm them up to the subject by showing them some videos and erotic stories, maybe some sex guides too.

How to get started? 

You both agreed that you want to incorporate feet into your daily sex life, but what now? First and foremost, you (or your partner, depends on how you’re doing it) should put some more attention into your feet beauty routine, assuming you have one. It’s normal to feel a little self-conscious about the appearance of your feet, once you realize your partner pays attention to them. You probably don’t even know what would make this sexy for anybody. Obviously, you can always ask your partner, and you should do so, but you can start by doing some foot masks, pumice stones, lotions, perhaps a little pedicure. You want a footjob to feel good, right? Then make those feet soft like silk.

After your feet are well taken care of, it’s time to turn them into a real sex object. Try to look for some inspiration on the web and start posing for pictures. Your partner will surely appreciate it, every fetishist might like different things. So make sure what you are doing is in agreement with your partner first.

Wrapping it up

No matter if your partner wants to have their feet worshipped or wants to worship your feet, this is a very sensitive subject and also quite a taboo. We were all brought up with the idea of feet being dirty and gross, this makes the foot fetish almost a forbidden fruit and therefore more exciting. Remember to be gentle with them and don’t kink shame them. Next thing, as we always stress in our sex guides, communication is the key. Make sure whatever you are doing is alright with your partner and their boundaries, and everything will turn out fine.

Thank you for reading our latest sex guide on the Party Girls London Blog! If you enjoyed this foot fetish guide, we encourage you to check out our latest erotic story Foot Fetish Passion in Candlelight and Stepping Up Our Foot Fetish Guide