All sex work involves certain risks, which is why reading this post is important, regardless if you’re only thinking of joining the business or already are a professional escort.
Given the pervasive stigma surrounding sex work, it’s crucial to recognise the potential strain on your mental health, in addition to the safety and security dangers.This sex guide will be a collection of tips to help you keep yourself safe. Everything revolves around the SSS — Safety, Security, and Satisfaction. Safety stands for being actually protected from potential dangers, while security has a more metaphysical aspect. The last, satisfaction, is obviously about keeping your clients and yourself happy with your work.
Safety first
The obvious risk that comes with any kind of sex work are STDs. Most of them can only be transmitted during unprotected intercourse, but remember all bodily fluids can cause various diseased. For example, one of the most popular STDs is chlamydia, and it can be spread during just oral sex. Furthermore, you have to be extra cautious during various fetish practises, especially those involving urine and other bodily fluids. To prevent most diseases, use protection, like condoms, and regularly test yourself. Plenty of professional escorts also demand their clients to be screened if they insist on unprotected play.
Another important point you can’t ignore is the work environment. There are countless requirements for an office building, but not many guidelines for the sex work industry. First and foremost, never meet new clients in an isolate place. It’s common for professional escorts to operate from their home, or just a rent out a flat, but remember to take safety precautions. Most services check their clients before referring them to the sex workers, but it’s a different story when you’re on your own. The best option is to meet new clients in a public place for a quick conversation, if not only to make sure they’re not psychopaths, just to get to know them better and bond.
It’s safer and easier to work with an escort service, but in case you work alone, make sure your close friend knows who and where you’re with. Consider investing in a panic button system to discreetly inform your trusted guardian of a dangerous situation. Also carry self-defence accessories, like keychains, alarms or flashlights, maybe even go as far as taking a few self-defence classes.
Stay secure
Nowadays, online presence is everything. It’s very difficult to be a successful professional escort without sharing your pictures online, although mostly with a blurred out face. Remember to only use stage names and give approximate location, before making sure a person is legitimate. Protect all your private information, including your private phone number. Furthermore, consider watermarking your pictures and regularly make a reverse image search to make sure nobody else is using them.
As we mentioned in our previous sex workers relationship guide, maintaining a healthy mindset and practicing self-awareness is incredibly important. All your services should be within your preferences and boundaries, pushing yourself over your limits is never the answer. Sex work can be very straining on mental health, so put yourself first and take care of yourself first and foremost.
Apart from self-help, establish an emotional support network. You can find friends in a sex work community that are going through the same things as you, or just speak to your close ones. Regardless, it’s better to have someone to talk to and support you.
Satisfaction all around
Professionalism is one thing, but in the sex work industry, satisfaction is very essential. You not only have to ensure your clients are content with your services, but also act in tune with yourself. As a professional escort, you have to learn your preferences and desires, while also understanding and accepting your boundaries. If you’re comfortable with it, feel free to explore your limits and kinks, but remember to never act despite yourself.
The ability to set clear expectations and boundaries, communicate effectively and keep your integrity isn’t easy. Actually, it’s probably the hardest part of sex work, but it’s a must. By establishing healthy boundaries, all sex workers can create a work environment that prioritises their emotional and physical well-being. It may cost you a client or two, but in the long run, your mental health is the priority.
Furthermore, satisfaction also extends to the quality of the services provided to clients. It involves keeping a professional approach, at the same time being respectful and empathetic. We already stressed the importance of consent, but your client should not also agree with your actions, but also be pleased with them. It’s a healthy habit to have a conversation about expectations and boundaries before engaging in sexual activities with new potential clients. If you’re working with an agency, they may do it for you, but regardless it’s good to have a conversation and get to know a person before being intimate with them. A lot of first-timers that never paid for any sexual services, feel overwhelmed and stressed about it, it’s crucial to make them comfortable. After your encounter, you can debrief together, talk about what you enjoyed, and possibly plan future meetings.
In the end, satisfaction in the sex work industry goes well beyond a standard customer satisfaction measures. It’s more about you, your mental health and your emotional comfort, than anything else. Of course, maintaining a professional approach is also extremely important, and you should always try to make your clients happy with the services provided. The challenge is to do it all while keeping your integrity and staying in your comfort zone. By prioritising the satisfaction of both your clients and yourself, you can build healthy habits and ultimately build your own successful brand.
Conclusion
To sum up today’s sex guide topic, being a professional escort or a different kind of sex worker, doesn’t mean losing your self respect and integrity. Nowadays, the stigma around the sex work industry lessened, but the common negative synonym used to describe is still “selling one’s body”. Regardless of our best efforts, it’s not going to change anytime soon, so the best you can do is to just accept it. Only because you’re using your body, doesn’t mean you’re selling yourself. Being a sex worker is a hard profession, you have to keep navigating through your clients and your boundaries and desires, all that while being intimate and being emotionally distant at the same time. If someone wants to think less of you because you’re working in the sex work industry, they probably don’t know what they’re talking about, therefore their opinion shouldn’t matter. Stay satisfied!
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