Once again our sex guide will concentrate on men, this time it’s all about edging. But first, what is it? Edging is a practice that involves stimulating almost until ejaculation and then stopping and starting from the beginning. It might not sound convincing at first, but it’s getting more and more popular as days pass by. It’s a form of teasing that is often a part of a longer, usually involving female domination, game. Women can also edge, but it’s a more complicated matter that will not be discussed in this post. A lot of people claim that edging is a recipe for a better orgasm, but that’s something you have to judge by your own preferences.
Why it’s good for you
For beginners, edging typically doesn’t end well. This is mostly due to impatience and lack of self-control. The first few times you may fail miserably and ruin your orgasm, but, after some practice, it’s a very useful skill to have. You will learn to have better control over your own body, resulting in longer foreplay and longer intercourse in general. You can both indulge in edging and have sex, even for a whole day. Keep in mind that after a long time of denying yourself orgasm, you will be exhausted afterwards. It’s also a great first step towards becoming a good submissive. After learning how to properly edge, your domina can try teaching you how to come (or not) on command.
Solo or with a partner
Edging is one of those practices that feel spectacular both alone, and with a partner. You can start by taking small breaks during masturbation and slowly increasing their length. Regardless if you’re alone or not, you can also try JOI. Of course, it’s not as much fun watching those kinds of videos, than doing it with your special someone, but it’s still worth a try. JOI role play will also help both your partner and you to feel more comfortable around each other, which will help your sex and everyday life together bloom. Another great option to get closer with your partner and edge at the same time, is taking breaks during an intercourse. You can either talk, cuddle, make out, or you can take this time to please your lady orally.
Edging vs orgasm denial
Many men stumble upon the phrase “edging” while exploring the femdom spectrum. Being edged by your dominatrix is a very different experience than doing it on your own or trying an innocent JOI with your partner. It’s about giving away all the control to someone else and making your sexual gratification depend on your mistress’s good will. Typically, in that case, we’re talking about orgasm denial, which starts in a very similar way, but differentiates towards the end. While the goal of edging is prolonging the pleasure and having the most wonderful finish of all time, orgasm denial however may never lead to gratification. In some cases, it leads to a ruined orgasm, which means letting you come in the least pleasurable way possible.
Tips for beginners
There are a lot of techniques for beginners to indulge in edging. Here’s the list of the most common ones and their pros and cons.
Take it slow – instead of stopping completely once you’re close to the culmination point, you only slow down and calm your breathing, speeding up again when possible. This is the simplest and the easiest method, perfect for newbies.
JOI – there are thousands of edging jerk off instructions available online, and if that’s not something you’re interested in, your partner can do it too. It’s important to mention that not every JOI video means femdom, everyone can find something for themselves.
Tantric method – tantric sex is all about sensations and slow tempo. This is the sort of experience you should do with a loved one, rather than a stranger. Tantric edging concentrates on slow, intentional moves and a lot of symbolism, for example physically tracing a finger from the crotch area to the head, which transfers the orgasmic energy.
BDSM / femdom – your partner can tie you up and take control. You can also use toys, like a cock ring (there are some with built-in vibrators), a feather for extra sensations, an arousal lube or even an electrostimulation kit. The possibilities are endless, the only limits are your own.
Have you decided if that’s for you? Remember, our ladies will be happy to introduce you closer to edging. Stay tuned in for our next sex guide.
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