This sex guide will revolve around a thing that should not need any explanation… Public sex. In your darkest fantasies, you might picture yourself doing that on a stage in front of millions of people, but in real life as much as a make-out session in a changing room feels like too much. Don’t worry, many people crave that forbidden fruit, but feel mentally restrained from actually getting it. Today’s sex guide is a step-by-step instruction on how to ease yourself to do it and not get caught in the process.
You should start slowly, whether it’s your dirty fantasy or your partner’s. Even if you consider yourself a shy, or maybe uptight, person, nothing is impossible with the right attitude. Start by going out without your underwear. You can discreetly show your partner that you’re naked underneath your clothes to create a tension that will have to wait until you’re back home. Then, you can try to touch yourself, or masturbate if you’re that brave, in a public bathroom or a changing room. If actual public sex is still too much for you, wear sex toys like butt plugs or chastity cages, just to get yourself in the sexual mood and get comfortable with feeling that way outside of the privacy of your own home. Then, you can go to a nightclub for public sex or a strip club and watch other people do it, while you try to get comfortable with the nakedness and arousal in public.
Places for public sex for beginners
If you’re both certain you want and can do it in public, it’s time to find a spot that will not get you in trouble. As much as hot make-out sessions are somehow widely accepted in public, any type of nakedness or sexual behaviour is not. Don’t worry, only because something is forbidden, doesn’t mean it’s impossible to do it unnoticed. If you’re a same-sex couple, you can just go to a relatively empty public bathroom, whereas a heterosexual pair would have it harder. Do not attempt to go into the same changing room, it’s the most popular place and all employees are constantly watching it. Same goes with the cinemas, only because the lights are out doesn’t mean the cameras are out too. Also, car sex can quickly get you in trouble with the police unless you choose a secluded place, and there’s no fun in that. The easiest spot would be a dark room in some nightclub, but it might not give you the thrills you crave. A paradox is that most first-time public sex experiences are done in parks and playgrounds, just after hours. Another popular place is the back of a taxi or Uber ride, although you must be careful with that (or bribe the driver). The plane also made the cut, because as much as it’s monitored, the crew knows everyone wants to join the mile high club and will likely let it go.
Take it up a notch
Now, that you did it a few times in public, you should be ready to make it even more interesting. A fun game for couples to play is to put in a vibrator butt plug or a cock ring that’s connected to the other partner’s phone and turn it on when they least expect it. Go to a furniture store, since they’re usually the biggest with a lot of hiding places available, and play a little teasing game. After you both can’t take it anymore, disappear for a second, quickly doing the deed. For this to work, you both need to learn to stay quiet and unassuming, which might be hard initially. You think you’re good at acting? That’s the ultimate test. In case, rather than a teasing game, you’d lean into the BDSM theme, find a sex dungeon in your area and check what kind of fun they have to offer.
As you see, there are many opportunities to have a tremendous public sex experience. Remember to take it slow and don’t push your partner to do anything they wouldn’t want to. Also, be careful not to get caught, although the fine is not that high, compared to what good sex is worth. You’ll learn to be discreet and fast about your naughty fun with time. Some people go as far as diving under the restaurant table and get away with it. The most important thing is that you both enjoy yourselves.