In today’s sex guide will go into a subject that some might be considered taboo. Yes, that’s right, prostate stimulation. Previously, we talked about oral sex, but we haven’t yet dived into a more complicated prospect of pleasing your man. Be aware that not everyone likes ass play, so it’s best to consult with your partner first. The prostate is sometimes referred to as the male G spot, for obvious reasons. Simulating it may lead to the best orgasm of your partner’s life, don’t be angry if it’s even better than sex with you!
Prostate massage
Let’s start with the definition: stimulating a prostate is often called a prostate massage, but why is that? Sometimes, the prostate becomes enlarged as men age, massaging may help this. A prostate massage is not only going to help with the enlarged prostate, also some pains that you might feel during peeing, and, surprisingly, even reduce the risk of heart disease and prostate cancer. Regular ejaculation through prostate stimulation has a lot of health benefits, and it’s also more satisfying than penile stimulation. Remember that not all prostate orgasm leads to ejaculation, but some milky fluids may leak from your man’s cock either way.
Where’s the prostate?
A common misunderstanding is that everyone has a prostate. The truth is that only biological males have it. That doesn’t mean that females or people are assigned female at birth. Cannot enjoy annual sex. It just means that the pleasure would be different and trying to perform a prostate massage on them wouldn’t work. The prostate is located about two inches deep inside the rectum it’s more like in between the rectum and the penis, so you would have to hook your finger a bit to reach it. In general, it’s very similar to stimulating the G spot, even the finger movements. From the inside, you likely wouldn’t notice you are touching it, but it gets swellier when your partner is turned on, so it’s better to make him aroused before you start searching. The curious thing is that you can also reach the prostate from the outside. Once your man spreads his legs for you, you can look closer at the perineum, which is firmer near his shaft and softer towards his anus. The soft area is what you are looking for, once you press on it, he would feel like he needs to pee, which means you found the right spot. Now, you can use your tongue from the outside and your fingers from the inside. Combining oral play with ass play is always a good choice.
How to stimulate your man’s prostate?
The beginning of prostate stimulation might be a little awkward and uncomfortable. You should start by inserting your looked finger inside the rectum and finding the prostate. Once it. Try to press on it and gently rub it. In case your partner is not yet aroused, he may feel like he needs to pee and have a bit of discomfort, but he shouldn’t feel any pain. In case he does, you should stop immediately and consult with a doctor. And the most important thing is using enough lube. The vagina self-lubricates, but it isn’t the case with the rectum. As you start going faster and faster, it might create too much friction, so reapply your lube a couple of times. The best lube for ass play, would be the silicone. It doesn’t dry as quickly as water-based lube and also there is no risk of staining your sheet as it is with oil-based one. In the end, the choice is yours, but remember to use a lot of it. Keep in mind that if you are using toys, some silicon-based lubes are not toy-friendly. As the beginning may feel awkward, you should relax more once you see how much pleasure it brings him. Try to experiment with using both your tongue and your fingers, change the tempo and the moves, make sure you’re closely watching his reactions, as that’s your best pointer. After you both get used to it, you can also experiment with some toys.
Is it worth trying?
Many people aren’t too thrilled about the idea of incorporating ass play into their daily sex life. This sex guide was merely an introduction to prostate pleasures you can bring to your man, but if you are unsure, you don’t have to do anything. Many men are scared of getting penetrated, and many women feel like it’s a nasty thing. Prostate stimulation would benefit you both, but warming up may take some time.
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