A Beginner’s Guide to Sensational Role Play

A lot of our escort stories resolve around various role plays, and thanks to today’s sex guide, you can join in on the fun. Role play can add new excitement to your relationship and rekindle your spark. Even if your passion is as strong as ever, it’s still a fun way to explore your fantasies and kinks. Creating a perfect role play that suits both of your needs, with a good attention to detail and an immersive storyline is not easy, but with a help of this sex guide, you’ll do it like a pro. Just remember that a great idea is not all it takes, you have to talk to your partner and make sure they’re on board with every decision.

Setting the Scene

The first thing you need to think of is, not ironically, the beginning. Some people prefer to start with a non-sexual setting, while others jump straight to action. Regardless of the method, it’s crucial that you come up with a good starting point that will help both of you to slip into character. Begin by considering the atmosphere you want to create; is it a secret hotel suite, or a spontaneous encounter? Close your eyes and imagine how you want it to look like, and then use lighting, sound, and props to enhance the feel of the scene. Close your window curtains, play some music or sounds of the city on the speakers, maybe light some candles and decorate a little. Get your space looking as close to your imagination as possible, but don’t concentrate too much on the shortcomings. If getting a hotel room or anything else you might need to, is too expensive, rely on your imagination. The whole role play idea is about the power of imagination. Don’t be afraid of telling your partner things like: “imagine, this is a sofa” or “pretend I’m taller”. After all, this is just some bedroom fun, not a Holywood grade production.

Designing Characters

All the D&D fans in the room immediately got excited about this part, and they’re right. In a role play scenario, you can be whoever you want, and with whomever you want. If you always wanted to be the popular kid back in your high school years, this is your time to shine. The characters you and your significant other portray are essential for the complete experience. Thoroughly discuss and decide on the roles you’ll play. You can even develop backstories for your characters to add depth to the role play. Make sure you’re both well accustomed to your new selves before starting the role play. In the end, you would rather not get snapped out of the mood for some silly questions.

Creative Outlet

This is your time to shine! Even the sky isn’t the limit, in a private intimate setting, you can be whoever you want. Don’t be afraid to get creative with your role play scenarios, as long as your significant other agrees. You don’t even have to come up with the whole scene beforehand, if you know your character enough, you can just improvise on the spot. In case you don’t know where to start, we prepared a compilation of the most popular lines to start a role play:

• “I never thought I’d see you again. What brings you back after all this time?”
• “I know what you did, and if you won’t cooperate, I’ll expose you.”
• “I never wanted to hurt you, but I had no choice. You have to understand that.”
• “You can’t just waltz in here and expect everything to be the same.”
• “I’m usually a calm person, but you make me break out of my character.”
• “You’re asking me to do what? Are you out of your mind?”
• “I have a proposition for you. It could be mutually beneficial if you’re willing to listen.”
• “I’ve kept your secret for so long, but I can’t do it any more. It’s time to come clean.”
• “I know we’ve had our differences, but we need to put that aside and work together on this.”
• “I didn’t think it would go this far, I’m scared.”

As you can see, each one of these prompts is about different situations and different emotions. Role playing means something entirely unique to everyone. Some people use is as a creative way to have some fun, others for their dark taboo fantasies, for you, it might be something else, and it’s great, as long as you enjoy it.

Communicate and connect

Open communication is essential for a successful role play experience. Before diving into the fantasy, have an honest conversation about boundaries, desires, and the extent of your consent. Even if you’re planning to stay safe, establish a safe word or gesture that either participant can use to indicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop the role play. Remember, as we always stress, consent is the key to an enjoyable sex life. Bedroom role play isn’t just about the characters and the scenario; it’s also an opportunity to deepen the physical and emotional connection between the two of you. Together, you can create an unforgettable fantasy that will not only satisfy you, but bring you closer together.

Aftercare

In our Doms training guide, we briefly mentioned aftercare, but due to the importance of it, we’ll repeat it here. Aftercare refers to the care and attention given to your parter after engaging in sexual activities. Usually, we can discuss aftercare in BDSM or intense physical and emotional related experiences; however, this is why it’s also known as debriefing. The verb “debrief” means a series of questions about a completed mission, it’s commonly used in the corporate environment as a way to discuss a completed task. As silly as it sounds, that’s why you need it after a role play. A proper aftercare involves providing comfort, reassurance, and emotional support to help the participants feel safe and cared for after the experience. You and your partner have to calm down and go back to your usual relationship, which can feel weird after a long role play. Apart from that, use this time to talk about what happened and what can be changed or improved. Debriefing is an important part of sexual intimacy and can help strengthen the bond between partners. It’s healthy to practise it after every sexual experience, it can be something as simple as a cuddling session — in the long run, you’ll benefit from it.

Creation of the perfect bedroom role play for beginners requires imagination, communication, and most importantly, a willingness to explore new experiences with your partner. By establishing deep characters with complex backstories, setting the right scene and mood, and, of course, respecting yours and your partner’s boundaries, anyone can come up with a fulfilling and enjoyable role play scenario. Successful role play, will be a tool to strengthen your bond and make all your fantasies come true, don’t be afraid to use it.